The Runner & Chaser stages can happen with any divine counterparts.
The Twin flames dynamic involves extreme energy surges prior to the union.
As with all divine partners, they can mimic Twin flames. We will be referring more to Twin flames in this article.
A Twin flame connection requires that both souls be prepared and ready. As they start to merge as one, they’re working on themselves with eliminating everything that they’ve accumulated all of their lives.
Life lessons they must learn.
If they’re angry with themselves, many times it has to do with abandonment issues, anger, and fear-based energy from their past.
They carry past old wounds as sometimes they have not been healed, and this can create a huge conflict when they are entering into a union.
They must first come to our ascension energetically, weakening their souls with each other, in order for them to merge together as one into a higher frequency, which is the 5D level.
Twin flame separation?
Yes it is a very painful and difficult. As they feel that everything is lost, this is when they are the most triggered. They are detaching from each other to work on themselves.
There can be negative and harsh words said to each other, many times out of their own hearts and fear.
When Twin flames are separated, they experience severe emotional pain. As their spirit is compelled to each other, it’s part of a process of understanding as they navigate their energy together prior to the union.
Then they will try to cut the cords and disconnect, but it will only hurt them even more as they find it impossible to disconnect.
It’s better to cope with the Runner and Chaser phase versus trying to cut it off. The good news is that it is not permanent.
There’s really no exact timing on how long the separation will last. No one can actually predict when they will finally come together as they both need to work on themselves. Which makes it very difficult to put an exact time frame on when Twin flames will reunite.
The sooner you start working on your life lessons, the sooner the Divine union will begin. As your Twin starts to feel your energy, you automatically send a signal that everything is OK.
It can take several years before they finally find the union.
Yes, I know this is very difficult to hear but very true. It all depends on how much work you need to do on yourself to get past your life lessons and help your twin to ascension.
How do I work on myself?
The first step is to love yourself, I know it sounds really simple but so true that many people don’t know how to love themselves. When you start to really love yourself, you automatically trigger sparks that your Twin will automatically feel. Love attracts love. Without love, Twin flames cannot enter in a union.
When Twin flames are constantly debating and fighting, they are denying the fact that there is anything between themselves and it will prolong the union.
This is why we talk about separating in order to work on themselves separately so that they can find their true spiritual path.
How do I know this is a true Twin?
For one, if you have to convince or ask yourself this question, chances are this is not your person or divine counterpart.
When you do meet your Twin flame, you will instantly feel something change inside you and your life will never be the same.
We are sent several different types of Soul connections to help us grow and evolve spiritually.
Not everybody is going to meet their Twin flame, or Twin Ray.
But it is “Your person” and who you were meant to share your life with. This can come from any of the Soul Connection Collective.
Often referred to your Soulmates, Twin flame, Twin Ray or eternal Soul connection.
The runner is running from their own truth.
When you first meet your Twin flame. It will feel as if you were looking into a soul mirror of yourself.
It may be scary at first and you may feel like you’re on your honeymoon when you are with them.
As they start to come together, they realize that they are facing their authentic true self, oftentimes trying to mask or hide from themselves.
This is what causes them to run.
They need to go through a certain life lesson and they’re not getting it, you can’t tell them or they can’t tell you, but you both can work with each other simultaneously, prior to the union.
Twin flame returning?
You will always miss your Twin flame and look for them when they are apart from you, and many times trying to find ways to either speed the process or cut the ties.
Does this make you like a temporary fix, it’s never permanent. The stages are not about cutting off or speeding the process but eliminating what is necessary in order to come to the union.
If your Twin has a narcissist behavior, this is often triggered by emotional fear and abandonment issues. Creating an energy of resistance, almost feeling toxic.
Twin flames working towards ascension and awakening.
As they come into alignment with the higher selves, they find themselves feeling more alive and awake and then ever. When one awakens before the other, it’s usually because the weakest of the Twin needs to help the unawakened twin energetically to find their soul path.
As I mentioned, Love is the key, meditation is also another key factor in order to connect Twin flames to their higher selves, as they work on themselves energetically to connect as one prior to the physical union.
Healing and feeling love is the first step when they begin to awaken.
Ego plays a big part in triggering off negativity and emotions bringing up internal conflicts.
Meditation will help calm the Soul and connect to your higher self. As you begin to feel the love, so will your Twin. Raising your vibration is part of the reciprocation with their energies uniting.
It’s all about letting go of all past wounds, meditation, love, and self-care. This will help with the transition of coming into the Union.
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