Soulmates & Twinflames

Soulmate / Twin flame: Work on Yourself to Heal and Unite


Which of the Soul connections are easier?

Actually also Connections go through almost the same type of connecting process in order to come to a divine union.
The energy of soulmates is a relationship similar to a garden. You plant the seed, nourish it and allowing it to grow by working on yourself.

When your soul first meets up. The energy goes to a higher vibration frequency that actually nourishes your soul, the way adding water is to your garden.

The key here is to love yourself and meditating on the love you’re feeling with that person. Correcting anything that needs to be eliminated out of your life. This will allow you both to manifest and blossom your energy connection deeper. Each one of us she has a unique connection with one another and no to Soulmate Connections are exactly alike. They may be similar to one another. But all are unique and the intensity varies.


Is the Soulmate and twin flame connection more honest with one another?

Honesty is the best policy, that is my philosophy on life. End it is especially so with your divine soulmate. When there is one that is in denial or running from something. They tend to block the truth that is in their heart. Thinking that this will be better for both of them. But actually it was the fear that they were running from that caused your original energy of dishonesty.

The answer is they may not want to but sometimes it does happen. It doesn’t mean that they are less connected to you. They are just convincing themselves instead of looking at the truth that’s in their heart, another reason why they run from their true authentic self.


Can soulmates and twin flames have conflict with one another?

Many say that when you have a soulmate connection it’s going to be the best experience ever! But actually this is not so, they do not have it easy when they are trying to come together as one.

Actually divine soulmates go through  heartache and negativity trying to find themselves than any other type of love relationship.

There are many different cases and types of connections, but they all share one thing in common and that’s working on themselves to find harmony and peace with themselves in order to come to a divine union.


Remember working on yourself does not happen overnight.

Any times both soul connections are not ready but the ego tells them that they are. Causing confliction and a lot of drama in their relationship.
When both need to examine and humble themselves to one another in order to get along and come to a peaceful understanding with each other.

How can two people that love each other so much, go through so much heartache and negativity with getting along and finding their true center. This is very common and I see this all the time with many different types of soulmate Connections.

In many soulmate Connections, the runner and Chase are stages happen. The Runner usually the masculine energy and being the weaker vessel running from their own fears. And the chaser the feminine being the stronger vessel.

Please note that it doesn’t matter on your gender to be a runner or a chaser. I was a runner in my twin flame connection and you can read more also watch my video on YouTube.
I also have more articles on my blog, about runner and chaser stages that you may be get a better understanding if you are involved in one.

There are negative and positive sides with every soul connection. So when there is any type of conflict actually it’s considered healthy. This makes them acknowledge their mistakes which usually comes from the ego.

This will also trigger their energy to look deeper inside themselves to find their authentic self. At the same time getting more in touch with spirituality and appreciating the little things in their lives to come to a higher vibrational 5D level.

When you meet your Soulmate or Twin flame, There can be a lot of drama at the beginning. When you meet your Twin flame there is nothing like this experience that you've ever felt before. The spiritual bond is very powerful and no one else will matter in your life. This can also have the same effect with your Soulmate. But with the Twin flame there is a magnetic pull that makes it almost impossible to resist. They can tap into the deepest part of your soul into a 5D level. It can be a little scary when you only know this person for a short time or barely know them at all. That someone can actually tune into the inner essence of your spirit. The powerful strength of soul energy with twin flames can stir up all types emotions. Many times not positive ones. When there is karmic past life energy that needs to be corrected, it can create a lot of emotional issues that needs to be cleared before they can unite in harmony. Many times these issues can be severe. When one is not aware or awake to see what they need to do, in order to clear these blockages in their life to move forward. They will try to run from the heart of the matter, by creating a confliction, referred to as the runner and chaser phase. This is only temporary there is nothing that can permanently disconnect the twin flame connection. I do explain more about the runner and chaser phase that you can read about in my previous article. You will always feel the presence of their spirit near you. Twin flames are connected through a powerful soul source, that is one soul divided in two, before you were born. Nothing can disconnect them, no matter where they're at in their life, if they are with other relationships, or other sides of the world. Twin flames will always find themselves back together. Twin flames are extreme energy connections, that is a beautiful love story or a very painful experience. This is a very powerful energy connection that's intense. Cutting or severing the ties is not an option, when there is negativity and drama involved. There is no one to manually cut off from your Twin flame. There are reasons why the both of you are going through this. You both are sent together to fulfill your destiny as one soul. Along with working on yourselves with life to find unity and balance in your selves. This happens also with Soulmate as well as twin flame connections, When there is drama the energy is off-balance. And they need to continue to get it right, many times repeating in different lifetimes. Always remember that you can do anything that you put your mind to. Getting past the energy of this drama and recognizing The truth with inside yourself. Never allowing it to overwhelm you and that you need to have self control with love in your heart. There is love inside you but the ego is always trying to take control. Soulmates and twin flames need to come to a balance partnership with a deeper understanding to each others needs. This can only happen when they have finally found their true soul mission in life, not allowing on the drama to take over, that comes that happens in every relationship. Even when they are separated, soulmates need to work on themselves by loving and having gratitude for what they have in their their life. This is when they will be able to unite and live together in harmony.

Can soulmates and twin flames share thoughts?

Absolutely! When we are connected as one, we can spiritually feel, here, and sometimes smell their scent when we are in tuned with each other’s vibrations.

Telepathic communication is very common with twin flames and they can complete each other sentences at the same time send each other messages without even trying to.
This takes time to develop but in the end they can feel one another’s thoughts energies and pick up strong vibrations from their other half.


The first step to heal and connect with your Soulmate is loving yourself. But also taking care of yourself.

Letting go of any internal thoughts that may be negative or grudges helps with finding your true center. Getting healthy and avoiding processed and fast foods.

Getting better with your food choices and illuminating anything with bad habits and maybe a time if you were smoking to quit. Or start getting into some more exercise we can all find ways to get creative with working out.

#1 I suggest walking, it requires very little effort and you can do it anywhere.
Enjoying the outdoors and loving every season, even if it is spring weather all the way into winter, you can find the beauty in every season.

The love lives inside of you and it’s time to embrace everything who you are inside and allowing the energies with your soulmate to manifest.

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Soulmates & Twinflames

Twin Flames: Runner & Chaser Stages

Twin Flame Runner and Chaser Coming to a Perfect Union


Twin flames are also referred to as the Twin soul. It is a person that your soul is destined to be with. They are connected on different levels which include physical, emotional, mental and spiritual.

Soulmates, we have many, they can be anyone, it can be a friend, lover or a teacher that you feel connected to in one way or another.

It is most commonly used in the romantic sense and people want their relationships to be a Soulmate or Twin flames because they can connect with them at the passionate level. Sometimes we meet people to help us move forward and they are not spiritually connected to us.

It’s NEVER good to go looking for your soulmate. But let heart guide you to the one that calls out to you. Sometimes you are meant to be with someone who isn’t your soulmate, but only preparing you for your ultimate divine partner later.

Twin flames are a mirror to the soul mainly because people can see their reflection in the other person.

They can feel their other half deepest fears, needs etc. Regardless of the fact that twin flames can run from their own insecurities. This will turn into the Runner and Chaser Stages.

Runner and Chaser Dynamics


You heard about the Twin flames Runner and Chaser dynamics. But did you know that Soulmates can also have a runner and chaser experience too.

The Runner Chaser dynamics (as the name suggests) highlights the idea that one person i.e. the Twin flame or Soulmate Runner based on their confusion would run away from the Chaser.

So the Runner will run and the Chaser will chase the runner till the Runner and Chaser come to a divine union. Once the Runner awakes and is aware of their divine connection.

The Runner is mostly trying to run away from any sort of emotional insecurities, fear of love or commitments, past hurts and toxic previous relationships.

There are so many reasons on why they run, but through it all there is a healing that is happening between both the Runner and Chaser.

Most of the times the Runners are not even aware of the idea that why are they running away from the chaser.

Many Chasers will chase the runner thinking that the runner will get back to them. However, what they fail to realize is that no matter how many times they chase or for how long they chase.

The runner will not come back unless they are ready and unless they are given time to think. Runners are afraid, and often get scared of their own feelings. Because of their fear they live with, they tend to block their heart from the chaser as much as they can.

This leads to heartbreak for Chaser and many times the roles can become reversed. Chasers can actually become Runners, and Runners into Chasers.

I know it sounds confusing, but always remember it’s never easy for the Twin flame Runner and Chaser. They both need to work on themselves.

The Chasers should never blame themselves for the Runner running, it’s not permanent. Chaser’s need to take a step back and let the Runner work through whatever karmic issues they are dealing with. In order for the Divine union to take place.

It’s important that both Twins let go, release and surrender their past emotional hurts and start over. When the runners awake, they realize where they are at and will be drawn to come back to their other half.

What if Runners are in a bad place or with other people?


Sometimes the Runner may be within a very odd situation, place or with involved in another relationship. As painful as it may be, it’s best not to put so much of your energy in trying to change or convince the Runner to come back. Especially when you know it’s not for their highest good, or a very toxic situation.

They need to work through these issues themselves. It it best to let them continue their path and awaken when they are ready to do so. This sometimes can take many years before they are finally aware. Not everyone will experience the same situation.

When getting a psychic reading about your situation. Be advised that timeframes for twin flames are never accurate.

Sometimes the typical non Spiritual relationship is always pre-destined before you meet the “ONE” you are destined to be with.

The entire universe will conspire to help you meet your Divine Soulmate. Before that time arrives or you feel that you are connected to a person on all kinds of levels. You need to be ready and prepared to be reunited with your Divine partner.

The Chaser and the Runner will eventually come to a union when both sides will experience the same kind of energy at spiritual, physical, emotional and passionate level.

When the levels will reflect upon one another, They will combine together as one spirit. This will be a divine Soulmate relationship. Twin flames will unite with one another when both Twins are complete, ready to be with each other.

At the Beginning Divine Soulmates know they have mission and at first there is confusion and fear about their feelings. This is to perfect their lives  for the most precious and divine union of all time.


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