A narcissist is a very common behavior pattern with Twin flames and even Soulmate connections.
When it comes to Twin flames, they can sometimes come off to be narcissists. Many times during the Union process, there’s an energy of narcissism and codependent energy that flares up, very common with Runners & Chasers.
This is part of a process with healing and to show us who we are and we need to work on ourselves and release past wounds.
You may ask yourself is my Twin flame a narcissist? Or am I just codependent?
I’ve been asked many times if their Twin is, in fact, a narcissist. When things are not going their way in a relationship, if it is indeed a Twin or a Divine Soulmate. People seem to want to label it Narcissist, Karmic or false Twin.
Mainly because that person is not responding and not working on himself or herself to come into a union. Often running and blocking their union with denial.
This is all to help teach you what you need to learn and they to need to work on themselves at the same time.
If this person is abusive, as I’ve always said before, it’s never good to hold on to something that is hurting you. This is not a healthy relationship no matter what connection they share, they truly are not ready for a relationship.
Many times we go through our life lessons alongside our Twin.
When the narcissist behavior pattern begins, it is often to help us take a better look at ourselves as we look in the mirror of how we need to love ourselves.
You may want to disconnect and cut off ties, but this only makes things worse because of the deep soul bond that you both share; it is impossible to try to cut off from your divine Soulmate or Twin flame.
A true narcissist will not have love in their heart, will never express it or show love for anyone else.
A narcissist will be self-involved, extremely egotistical and selfish. They hold onto a mask and show that they know everything, this is also called the God complex.
Often our Twin is running from themselves so they will block the emotional energy instead of trying to deal with it.
They have insecurities and afraid to awaken, putting blocks up constantly from opening their hearts and using extreme amounts of ego to protect themselves from getting hurt.
Those are inner issues that they need to open your eyes to, and finally, heal from whatever is troubling them. This will create a narcissist energy behavior. Not a true narcissist!
The Twin flame energy finding themselves in a codependent behavior is often reflected in the narcissistic behavior as well.
This is a mirror back to one another from their own emotional past wounds that need to be released, surrendered and healed from.
The bottom line is that true Twin flames are not narcissist or codependent.
These are a behavior pattern that clears up with their own inner work that needs to be cleared.
As soon as their ego kicks in, connecting into the 3-D realm until they are ready.
When their vibration frequency is very low, they can reflect a narcissist personality and energy, along with codependence.
Focusing on loving yourself and avoiding anything that may bring your vibration spiraling down.
The first step is always to love yourself!